精神世界的No Trade Theorem

心理学上不知是那条定理常常用来作为吵架时候的argument,其意大概是你越捍卫的往往是你越缺少的,越挂在嘴边,就越是掩饰。这种指摘似乎渐渐成了某种强盗逻辑,并加深了人与人之间的不信任。久而久之,“最好”的表达方式就成了闷声不吭,囫囵吞枣,甚至装疯卖傻;但往往只有闷声不吭是不够的。

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